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Medium- Messages from The Other Side
When a loved one passes, we miss them, and sometimes want to know that they are ok.
Is there is something they wish us to know?  Are they  "here" for us?  Do they know we miss and love them?  Do we need some closure?

 

Can my loved one “fix” my problems from the Other Side?

Our loved ones will always be with us, and we can call on them whenever we wish; however, we have to make our own decisions in life and make our own path.

 

What is a Medium?
A Medium is simply someone in the middle.  A person who can bring through a message from someone on the Other Side, Heaven, or whatever you chose to call the beautiful place we go to.  We are born with this gift; however, it may surface very early in life, or much later. It WILL surface.

 

Is my loved one angry with me because of something I did, or didn’t do/say?

Absolutely not. Even if they were not the forgiving type on this side, they become very different on the Other Side. Their personality is the same, but they hold no grudges and understand that we are very imperfect here and are trying to learn (which is our reason for being here in the first place!)  Many times, we were just acting “human” and there really is nothing to forgive.

It is extremely comforting to hear their words, to know they are happy, out of pain, forgiving, healthy & very much with us. 

It is my pleasure to be blessed enough to help bring these messages to you.

Signs

Do they give us signs?

Yes, all the time.
 

*Perhaps every time you look at the clock, it says 3:10, and your loved one's birthday was March 10th.  

*You smell sweet pipe tobacco, which smells just like your dad's, but you are in your living room and no one smokes.

*You have really been thinking about your mom, when a beautiful butterfly flutters past at an odd time of year. Your mom loved butterflies.  
 

Pennies from Heaven: This is very true. Now every time you see a penny on the floor doesn’t mean it was sent from a loved one. However, if you leave the house with a clear kitchen table and upon returning there are pennies on it, you may have been given a sign.



Messages & Visits

When they want to give you a message, they will! ... And if you don't get them, they will let me know what they want to tell you.


*Sometimes they stroke your hair while you sleep   *Sometimes they ring the phone at a special time of day.  Grandma may send a beautiful flower, the only one in bloom, while
Grandpa may send a bird to the window that you never see in your area, but one he loved.
*Sometimes you have a dream and it seems so real!

May times they are just visiting you.

 

No, you are NOT crazy if you "feel" their presence.  However, sometimes it's nice to hear it from someone who does not know you or your loved ones.  

It will give you the confirmation you need to be completely sure.
 

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Ghosts & Haunting

Those entities who are still on this plane and have not passed over to the Other Side.
 

We all hope that when our loved one passes, they are happy and contented in a beautiful place.  However, this is not always the case.

 

Why do people become ghosts?
Some people either don't want to pass, or do not know they are deceased, consequently, getting "stuck" on this side.  They are not really part of our world, yet not on the other side, which is why they may do things to get our attention.

Some want to be heard with unfinished business.  Some have passed so traumatically that they don't realize they are gone.  Some don't want to leave their dwellings.  Others are just plain mean spirits and like to torment the living.

Some are not ghosts at all, but their energy is simply replaying an event (a battle, a routine). This is called a “residual” haunting.
 

Do I have a ghost?
Many times, the unexplained things that go on in our homes, can be explained.  Strange electrical occurrences, cold spots, voices, noises, and even things we see MAY have a logical meaning.

This does not always mean you can explain it. Someone could be "living" in your home or on the property, unable or unwilling to pass on. They may be trying to get your attention because you remodeled their place, or a small child may tug on you to play. A grumpy old man may not want you in "his" chair! Or, they just want to observe you.

Should I be concerned?
Not necessarily.  They don't always realize that we cannot see them, so to get a touch or whisper from something we can't see is scary in itself, never mind seeing them completely!
There is also a concern for the ghost itself, especially if they would pass, but don't know how.
Some people are more sensitive to the feelings of the ghosts than others.  

What should I do?
It's up to the ghost really.  Here's what I like to do...  I go into the home or building as a Paranormal Investigator, using science.  Once a ghost has been confirmed, I'll "change hats" and go in as a medium, letting the entity decide if they want to pass or not. If the ghost is menacing, we will attempt to get rid of it no matter what!  At times, they just don't know where to go and need some guidance.  They move on and are happy, and the homeowner can go on unafraid, knowing they have made a difference in the life of someone who was once alive.

In my personal opinion, they were once living beings and have the right to decide for themselves.  

I have found that the majority of ghosts just need a push to pass on.  If they do not wish to move on, we cannot make them.  Most of the time, we can live with them, but if not, it becomes our decision.
 

What about Ouija boards? Are they dangerous?

Anytime you mess with Spirits and are not experienced in the field it can be unpleasant, whether you use a board or not. Think of it as an open door. When you play with Ouija (or anything else), you open a door. You may want to connect with Great Grandpa, but the door is wide open for anyone to enter. They may not always be good Spirits who enter.

    If you were having a party, would you leave your front door open for anyone to come in? In the case of Spirits, if a very evil person decided not to pass and become a ghost, do you think he/she would be a “nice” ghost? I doubt it. Remember, they have not passed and are not trying to perfect.

 

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Readings
What will my reading be like? 

What to Expect- Here is a bit more detail about your gathering

Whether private, semi private, group, or large events, I will give you an introduction to the subject (s), and take questions first and foremost.  There is no “script” for Readings or Handwriting Analysis, so things are just as surprising to me as they are to you!

Library events differ in that there it is more of an interactive forum setting. More time is given to explanations, Q’s and A’s, and story sharing. I will give readings as well. (Libraries are for learning, right?)

Although the setting doesn’t have to be “silent”, I do need to be able to concentrate.  TV’s, music, & video games need to be on “rest” mode.  While we all love little ones around, children running about are unfortunately, a distraction. Pets are fine.

*Note: Young ones are more than willing to attend if old enough to enjoy it!

Readings are given as a group (semi private/group readings). You may save personal questions for later. Be assured that I will not say anything to embarrass you or reveal anything personal.
 

How many people should I have?
6-10 people are good for Tarot & Spirits, You may have up to 15 for Handwriting *Note: Other arrangements can always be made, but this is standard. Nothing is “written in stone”.

How long will it last?
Expect me to stay for 2 to 3 and a half  hours, depending on the size of crowd. Occasionally it runs up to 4 hours.

How will my group reading (party) work?
This is your event, and you may handle it as you wish.  Refreshments before, after, and during the readings are welcomed.  Food never bothered anyone! Whether you prefer coffee, soda, or more “spirited” beverages – it’s your choice.  I will take a short break (10-15 mins) in the middle so that everyone may stretch, etc., although you are obviously free to get up, down, or leave when you want.  

If anyone needs to leave early, I will try to read for them first.  I say “try”, because there are times where certain Spirits just need to come through right then and there.  There are also times where the energy of a person needs to be addressed immediately. (Ex: Someone isn’t feeling well, has a big problem, etc.)

 

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Spirits, Tarot or Handwriting?
Handwriting Analysis is a fun filled, laughable time where your group can all have a sample of their writing analyzed.  If the group is small (6-10) we can either analyze other writing samples you may wish to bring (your boyfriend for example.  It’s lots of fun and great for a “mixed” crowd – men, women, people who are not into the “Spiritual” side.  Click here for instructions.

 

Tarot
I come equipped with a couple of decks, and everyone gets their cards read.  You may ask questions about Tarot in general, and sample the decks if it’s something you may be thinking of trying for yourself.  Note: Don’t be surprised if Grandma, Grandpa, or other relatives/friends from the Other Side “pop” through to say hello.  I have no control over them!   

Spirits
We will connect with The Other Side.  I will start by reading the “energy” in the room, and the people.  It’s almost a guarantee that someone will stand out and I’ll usually be drawn to them first. There may be a loved one who is really trying to come through and give an important message.  If they need help or advice on a particular issue, their Spirit Guides, along with mine will make sure they get the proper assistance.  

Note: Each Medium/Psychic is different. I do not have a specific “ritual” or meditation that I do

 

Can I request the person I want to connect with?

Yes you may. Just remember, there is no “script”, so I have NO idea what is going to happen. You may request your brother, and Uncle John comes in, then Aunt Rose. There may be something they need you to know “before” you connect with your brother. 9 times out of 10, I’ve been fortunate enough to be able to connect you with who you want.
 

Can we bring in something “bad” or “evil”?
Uh, not unless your Uncle Jimmy was a serial killer!  We are talking to Spirits who have passed on, not ghosts.  I rely on God and my Spirit Guide, as well as your Guide to bring through the information that is necessary.  

 

*Note: If you DO think you have a ghost, we can address that separately.
 

Day or evening sessions are available
 

Participants Only Please


Can I combine more than one type of reading?

Spirits & Tarot - We will contact your loved ones on the Other Side.  Many times there are wonderful surprises as to who shows up! Tarot or "psychic readings" are also incorporated
Tarot Only - All participants will have their Tarot cards read.  The guidance in my readings is meant to help you with the “here and now”, not necessarily what will happen in10 years. Don’t be surprised if a loved one from the Other Side  "pops in"!

 

Large Gatherings
If you are having a large party such as an office party, family get-together, etc., you may wish to choose Handwriting Analysis or Spirits, as they can both be done in large groups. Handwriting is "Safe", and great if some in the audience are wary of the Paranormal


Spirits parties - I will go through the crowd to see who comes through, Not everyone in a large group will be able to get a reading.  I will keep readings short - to get to as many as possible!

 

Handwriting Parties – Everyone will submit a short sample of their writing and I will randomly give results, attempting to get to everyone in the crowd, along with questions, comments, and above all, a few laughs.
 

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What is Tarot?
Tarot is a helpful, spiritual guide along our path of life.

The Tarot cards are a series of 78 picture cards, though some Tarot type decks vary.

The Tarot is simply a tool.  The cards themselves have no special “powers”.  They are just cards, and I use them as an aid to help with the interpretation of a reading.  The reader has no special “powers” either.  We are simply intuitive in certain areas. Psychic readings can easily be done without Tarot Cards; however it is an added visual benefit for the subject to see the cards/reading unfold.

 

Two people may have some of the same cards, in the same positions, and yet they mean something completely different.  The reading is to help as a useful guide.  You ultimately make your final decisions.
 

Doom & Gloom?
Will the cards “predict” something terrible? 

There may be an unpleasant situation coming up, passing by, or something the seeker is presently dealing with.  We all have these issues.  Most often, the subject is already aware of the situation.  The reading may be able to guide and give advice as to whether he/she is on the right track or if changes need to be made.


What about that Death card?

Do not be afraid of the Death card.  It often means the death of something old and the start something new, usually a life type change.  It does NOT predict your death! 

 

What if illness is seen? 

We live in an imperfect world, and unfortunately, illness is a part of it.  There could be a warning card, but isn't that a good thing?  I find myself saying, "watch your health",  and am usually met with something like, "I have high blood pressure and should probably watch my diet!" (I do not give any medical advice, as I am not a doctor)

Your Love Life?
Is someone special in my future?  

You might literally “bump into” the love of your life at a grocery store, but don't count on a reading to drop them in your lap.  A reading can  give you advice on the types of people you meet, your past patterns, your present relationship, and, YES, occasionally you will learn about someone you are about to meet!

Money & Work?
Am I going to win the lottery?

If I knew that, I’d be doing readings for myself all day long!  Again, it will give advice about our job or business situation, and the people associated with it.

Tarot readings are enlightening; yet don’t always tell you what you want to know.  They will tell you what you NEED to know, which is really what you WANT to know, isn’t it?
 

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Handwriting Analysis (Graphology)
The Science of your personality traits through your writing

 

Your handwriting is your personal “brain print”.  It is a way to understand your personality traits by the way you write.  If you were to lose the use of your arms, you would eventually write the same way with your feet as you did with your hands.

Your emotions are shown in your writing, and your  “public” self-image, in your signature.

Are you a giving person, maybe too giving?  Are your emotions repressed, or do you control them?  Are you happy or is your past pulling you back?  Are you zipping toward the future like lightening?  These, along with many questions can be answered through handwriting.

Handwriting Analysis is used by authorities in many criminal cases, however it has
many practical reasons to use it in our every day lives.
Click here for instructions.

 

Here are some examples:


Can it help with my Love Life?
Just met someone new?  Are you compatible?  What about your current relationship?  Could you be getting along better?

When both parties are analyzed, you’d be surprised at the results.  Maybe you need space and they like closeness, or you are emotionally giving and they are too controlled.  Once you know the problems, you can work on the solutions, or decide if that new person is a better choice.

Finances & Home Life
Is that new job right for you? Is the potential employee right for your company?
Will you and the new business partner get along? Can you trust him/her? What job is best for you?

Hiring someone to watch your house, kids, pets? Do have elderly parents/grandparents that need in-home care? You’re hiring people to work while you’re not at home.  Are they trustworthy? Do you want them alone in your house, or around your family when you are not there?

A look at their handwriting can reveal a lot about potential employees. YOU make the final decision, of course.


Children & Family
Teens and pre-teens have certain traits that are common to many; however, understanding them can be of great value.  

 
Is your pre-teen going through an "awkward" time and feeling self conscious?
If you know about it, you can help.  Is your teen starting to date? Just who are they interested in?

Things like drug use and serious depression can be spotted (in adults as well)

Note:  While it is impossible to "predict" exactly how a person will behave, their handwriting gives definite guidelines as to what type of person you are dealing with.

 

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Have any questions, comments or suggestions, email Lisa at lisa@lisamlanno.com